Remember when I laid out this set of expectations for 2016 at the turn of the new year? I’m guessing not but we’ll revisit them anyway for this midyear review.
Within the first six months of the year, I wound up meeting some of these expectations already while others are still ongoing. Join me in this Reflections and Expectations special, looking back at the year that was…so far.
Professional development – Since the beginning of the year, a setback occurred once again in my career. Fortunately, it was a short-lived one.
In March, I was dismissed from my marketing coordinator post after less than a year at the San Jose civil engineering firm Mark Thomas & Company. I departed the company on good terms although I felt better off being let go. While the role helped me reenter the transportation business, I always realized the kind of bigger, better opportunities I wanted did not and will not exist at this company.
Three months later in late June, I joined VSCE — a small civil engineering firm in Downtown Oakland — as an outreach project analyst. This role marked a return to my roots in community relations in transportation, working with transportation agencies as clients of the firm. I’m currently working for the company on a part-time, temporary basis with a determination to be made in the fall regarding my future in this organization. Either way, I’m glad to be back to where I really want to be in this business and I remain committed to making sure I stay on track for a more successful career.
Family relationships – There are no major developments on this front. Such relationships remain stable although I still remain emotionally neutral as it relates to my biological mother in South Korea.
To fulfill a moral obligation, I invited my mother to the convocation ceremony at San Jose State University in June (more on that milestone below) as my only guest. While I initially objected to having her attend (pressure from some of my relatives led to this move), she proved me wrong by becoming a welcoming presence. In hindsight, I wish I could have done more on my part in making her feel like a truly visible part of my life in front of others in attendance that weekend. However, there were understandable limitations such as language barriers that hindered such efforts. Still, I believe we both benefitted from each other’s presence last month. As for what this means for the two of us going forward? It’s still anyone’s guess.
Healthy living – I found in recent months that I have become more proactive than expected on this front.
After recovering from a migrane headache in early March, I somehow started cutting back on sugar consumption. I found myself snacking less on candies and cookies in favor of fruits like blueberries, in particular. I still enjoy a cookie or an ice cream now and then but it is chocolate candies (think Snickers, Twix and the like) I have continued to move away from ever since.
I still practice yoga every Wednesday night at The Yoga Studio in Campbell. In fact, I celebrated my first full year of practicing yoga and at this particular studio this past week. I love how much yoga has benefitted my life in a variety of ways and I look forward to keeping at it to see where it takes me.
I’m also looking into other forms of activities throughout the year — hiking, bike riding, Krav Maga among others. This is probably the most physically active state I’ve ever been in my entire life. For as long as time and money permits, I hope to stay fit in a variety of ways that suit me.
Driving – I finally obtained a driver’s license for the first time on April 15. Even with that in hand, I’m still sticking with transit and Uber / Lyft as I have little need or desire to drive. Since then, I have driven on a few occasions using the company car or Zipcars for various purposes. Driving does have its own perks although transit and other means, while imperfect, are more economical and earth-friendly. I grew up with transit so I’m not letting that go…ever.
End of grad school – The pomp and circumstance that is the convocation ceremony is behind us. Now, I simply have to return in October to finish out my 10th and final course for the Master of Science in Transportation Management degree program at SJSU. Is it December yet?
Trips – I wound up taking trips to two new destinations this year — Phoenix in January and Dallas-Fort Worth Metroplex in July. What’s great about these two cities were that I had friends in both cities I could visit, ensuring those weren’t just another set of trips where I’d be exploring the regions alone. I enjoyed both dearly.
- I was a guest on a SiriusXM radio show in March!
- Ellie Goulding concert in April: One of the greatest highlights of my life this year.
- After five years of supporting my friend’s family by way of monetary donations, I finally joined the Canedy family at the Saddleback College in Mission Viejo in early June for the Relay for Life weekend. Being surrounded by some of my closest friends and their family makes me miss SoCal.
That’s where things stand in my life as of now. How about yours? What’s 2016 been like for you? What are your expectations for the rest of the year? Share your thoughts below. I’d love to hear from you.